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You must first learn to truly love and respect yourself and your judgement before ever being really successful doing so with a partner ! Relationship advice continued.....
You shouldn't be in a relationship just because you want to, but because you feel it's the right thing to do with the right partner. The building blocks stage puts communication to the test. Men and women communicate differently and both should accept and respect that reality. It's a given fact that women will communicate their feelings while men will do the same with their thoughts.
What are the basic and general needs of men and women ? Understanding and respecting these will help you set a strong foundation within the couple.
Knowing that men are from ''Mars'', their basic needs are : '' Confidence in him shown by the partner; appreciation for what he does; approval; admiration and encouragement. ''
Women being from ''Venus'' on the other hand, their basic needs are : '' Attention; comprehension; respect; devotion and the proof that a male partner sincerely values her feelings. ''
Now gentlemen, don't ever forget that women don't want you to try and find solutions to their problems. They only want you to listen and show some understanding ! Now let's get into the third and final relationship advice phase that we want to cover. It probably starts somewhere after the first official year of dating and we call it the ''mutual love trip'' ! To be successful during this stage, both partners need to set common goals. The goals would normally be mid-term to long-term and they would cover many aspects of life such as finance, family, housing, careers, etc. Both partners at this stage reinforce their own roles within the couple and focus all their energy on achieving those mutual goals. During this phase, it's still important that you keep respecting and acknowledging the basic needs of your partner. Those basic needs will stick with you as long as you're together. This stage can sometimes feel like endless routine and it probably will at times, but don't ever forget that the most important thing about life is to enjoy it ! So every time you feel trapped in society's living wheel, take time for yourselves, reminisce your good times and light up the spontaneous child in you ! Now.... the day you die, what do you think you'll cherish and remember most ? It's most likely going to be all the special moments you lived and witnessed ! So always give them priority over anything else !
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